For an elderly relative, moving on to the next chapter of their lives can be an emotional experience. The need to move home might stem from financial needs, bereavement, health reasons, or the wish to be nearer loved ones. But whatever the catalyst, time, diplomacy and tact are the order of the day.
Don’t Rush
It’s essential to broach the subject of a move sensitively. A move in the twilight years is likely to be a final move, so it’s important to think carefully about future needs. Consider one-level living, a spare room for live-in help and proximity to local amenities and GPs.
Size Matters
For 99% of elderly homeowners, the next home is likely to be smaller than their existing home (for some, significantly so)
Prioritise the essentials in terms of furniture and belongings, being mindful of what will fit in the new home.
Clear the Loft
Try to avoid simply moving the contents of one loft to another. Put boxes of photos into albums or digitise old photos. You could buy a digital photo frame that plays images on a loop. Reminders of fond memories can make a new property quickly feel like ‘home’. Shred bank statements and other unneeded paperwork to avoid any risk of identity theft.
Be Respectful
When it comes to letting things go, try to help your relative make their own decisions rather than substituting your own. While you may think that their Encyclopaedia Britannica or National Geographic collection is ready for the skip, it may be cherished by your relative. It may be less painful for them to see treasured items go to family, friends, or their chosen charity, rather than auctioned off on eBay.
Have Fun
Getting the whole family involved can help make sorting out belongings a more enjoyable experience. Play your relative’s favourite music and reward your efforts with a family meal at the end of the day.
Enlist Experienced Experts
On moving day, itself, consider choosing a removal firm experienced in helping elderly people move home. A packing and unpacking service can lessen the load and help make your relative feel settled more quickly.
Whatever their reasons for moving, it can be quite a daunting process, especially if they have lived in their current property for many years.
If you are have an elderly family member or friend looking for some property advice, we will be happy to help.
Copyright Butler Residential
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